I don’t handle it very well when people are mad at me or dislike me. I wish I was someone who could let things go and not wonder ” How do I fix this?” or “What did I do wrong?” Maybe there’s nothing wrong with me. Maybe I didn’t do anything yet my mind will analyze this over and over until my stomach is sick with worrying about.
Someone at work has started to “shun” me. I’m serious. This person looks the other way, avoids my office, doesn’t speak to me at all. I thought we were friends, but something has gone awry.
I’m battling insecurity and trying to listen to the words of my husband about looking to Jesus for my worth and worrying less about what others think of me, but I fail every day.
So I’m trying to keep my chin up and a smile on my face even though I mostly feel like crying about it.
I am the same way. And because I’m overly analytical I notice every little change. I’m the worst at feeling ignored. That guts me more than anything.
Steph, I live in a world of short term memory. Unless they come out and say, “dude, I don’t like you,” I just kick it old school and live life. I doubt you did anything, if you did, you would know.
But, nothing that a quick stop by there desk to say hi won’t fix. Just reach out. Sometimes that’s all it takes.
to update you, I did finally say something last week and now things are totally back to normal. the person admitted being upset about something, but it’s almost like she was shocked that I would be proactive and “call her out”.